Skip to main content

NAS: Modesty

Continuing our reflections about our make-up routines, let's chat about modesty! What does modesty mean to you? Does it just involve the clothes you wear and how you wear them? What about the things you say or do? In what ways can we improve our overall modesty?


What does it mean to be modest? Well, it for sure isn't summed up in the phrase Modest is Hottest.

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and almost turned this post from last week into my modesty post for the link up this week, but alas - I have graced you with multiple posts of my writing!

Back to modesty, I think it's about more than what we wear and how we do our make-up.  Honestly, if we aren't modest in our speech, actions, spending habits, what we eat, how much we work, the amount of time we work out, watch tv, and everything else we do, then our modest dress and make-up doesn't much matter.  Modest is just another form of temperance, self-control, and moderation.

Am I good at this?  Truthfully, sometimes I am good - other times I fail miserably.  I think I am mostly bad at modesty with everything except the dress and make-up (which I truly don't even own).

How can we improve modesty in our culture?  I'm really not sure, I don't have too many words of wisdom regarding this, unfortunately.  I think this is one of the virtues we don't value at all in our culture.  In our culture, we want as much of stuff as we can get even more than we can afford most of the time.  Have enough never seems to be enough.

Modesty is definitely the answer to the question - but how we travel down the path to get there, I'm not really sure.  As individual witnesses, I think we can have an impact - so today I will continue to strive.


As always thanks to Morgan and Jen for hosting - head on over to Follow & Believe (Morgan's place) for this week's link-up!

See you next week for a new topic!  This one is going to be good, you won't want to miss it!

Comments

  1. I have never been a fan of "modest is hottest," either. If you're doing it right, "hot" is not the way to describe a modest person. Words matter!

    (I can't remember if your comments are moderated or not, so if this is a duplicate, please delete it.)

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks for the comments! (they aren't) - I think the obsession with trying to be 'hot and sexy' has over run our world a bit.

      Delete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

NAS: A Day in the Life

It's 2015 and Tuesday so that means that we are back at the Not Alone Series !  A huge thanks to Jen and Morgan for hosting and for helping all of us ladies gather together to remember that we aren't broken, we aren't alone, and we are loved by God. Let's get back in the swing by sharing what our typical day is like! Tell us however you like, minute by minute or a blurb about your day! Be sure to answer these questions:  - What is your favorite part of your day? - What is your least favorite part of your day? - Are you making any changes to your daily routine now that the new year has begun? Well my typical day use to be not so typical, but then I took a huge leap and got a new job that is a lot eaiser to have a routine that is pretty set.  I am someone who loves routine, I crave stability, and although I can make changes into my routine, they have to be determined by me to stick.  So a typical day? I set my alarm to go off at 6:46am, I get out o

NAS: Travel

How do you travel as a single lady?! Any tips or tricks you'd like to share? Do you have anything fun planned for this year? Multiple times per week when I'm brushing my teeth in the morning I think about how boring my life is, how I never go anywhere. To be honest that is a complete and utter lie. I mean between July 2013 and March 2014, I hung out on four different continents - let along the time I spent traveling around the U.S. to Denver, New York City, Savannah, Orlando, and my parent's place. I'm the girl who bought a plane ticket to Africa and went into the bush all alone. (it's a great story ) Let me type that again - I went to the Congo, alone! I still can't even believe that I did that - it's the craziest thing ever ... but the most amazing experience of my life. So my off the cuff tips for traveling alone, they aren't super original, so be prepared to be underwhelmed! If you want to go somewhere, just do it - buy the ti

I Look Into my Inbox and What Did I See?

I receive the weekly notes from the Catholic Match Institute since my unsuccessful dabble in Online Dating some time ago ( link ) and today's included the face of one of my favorite priests. A man who helped me become the Catholic woman, for better or worse, that I am today. He is doing a series of five videos for CM through Advent. The first two are below ... I encourage you to watch them and stay tuned for the next three! Fr. Ananias, OSB - what an Advent treat!